For the days after the proposal

Yes was the easy part. We made the rest easier.

Six questions. Your first-week plan, drafted by Bridesmaid — the wedding planning tool we're building while planning our own.

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What it looks like

A real plan, for a sample bride.

Generated for Lena — autumn 2026, 80 guests, Bavarian countryside, $35k.

Your 7-day playbook

MonPick three venue regions. No specific venues yet.
TueTell five close people. Quietly. Before the news travels.
WedDraft a one-line vision — your reference for every "is this us?" moment ahead.
ThuOpen a single budget doc. One number at the top: your ceiling.
FriDecide who's paying — and have that conversation now, not at month three.
SatWalk it off. Don't open a single wedding tab today.
SunAsk your closest friend if she'd be your Maid of Honor. Or sit with the list one more week.

This week's 3 decisions

Season — autumn 2026 (locks venue + dress search windows)
Country — Germany (vs. destination — Italy)
Who you tell this week (and who waits)

Three rabbit holes to skip

Specific venues — too early; you'll fall for the first pretty one.
Dress shopping — wait until you have a date and a season.
Pinterest binges — bookmark, don't deep-dive. You'll get sucked under.

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A note from us

We wrote this because Christina just lived it.

The first week after yes is chaos. Everyone has opinions, no one has a starting line. We wrote this tool the way we wish someone had written it for us — honest about what to do today, honest about what can wait.

Christina & BenFounders, Bridesmaid

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